Key takeaway
A companion headstone is one memorial with names for two people, usually a couple buried side by side or in the same plot. Confirm with the cemetery that a companion stone fits your plots, engrave both names and the known dates now, and plan how the second date will be added later.
What is a companion headstone?
A companion headstone (or companion monument) carries two names on one stone. It keeps a couple together in one memorial and often uses one foundation instead of two. Many upright headstones are wide enough to work as companion stones, and some are designed specifically for two, such as our arched-top companion headstone.
Which plot layouts work with a companion headstone?
| Plot layout | What to ask the cemetery |
|---|---|
| Two plots side by side | Maximum width across both plots and whether one stone may span them. |
| One double-depth plot | Whether a companion marker is allowed and its maximum width for one plot. |
| Cremation plus burial | Whether cremated remains may be placed in the same plot and marked on the same stone. |
Get the answers in writing before you reserve a stone. Our cemetery rules checklist lists every question to ask.
What should you engrave now?
- Both full names, spelled exactly as on official records.
- Birth dates for both people and the date of death for the person who has passed.
- A shared surname or family name across the top, if the stone allows.
- A shared epitaph, wedding date or symbol, if space permits.
Leave a clear, reserved space for the second date. Our engraving and epitaph guide covers layout and proofing.
How is the second date added later?
The final date is usually added later by a qualified engraver, often with the stone in place at the cemetery. Ask the cemetery whether on-site engraving is allowed and whether a permit or fee applies. Keep the original proof, font and layout details so the new date matches the rest of the inscription.
How do you choose an in-stock companion stone?
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This guide is general information, not legal or benefits advice. Rules vary by cemetery and change over time, so confirm details with the cemetery and official agencies. Questions? See our FAQ or contact us.
